Tuesday, December 1, 2009
The Kite Runner
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Compare and Contrast
Many people make up different excuses and different reasons why they choose to or not to have kids. They often debt on rather or not having a child will neglect or benefit their life. I comparing and contrasting life with to life with out kids, I know that one takes more responsibility and the other gives me more opportunity, but they both make me a hero.
Of course, life with kids is the one that takes more responsibility. And that is because when becoming a parent there is more to think about; it is not just I anymore. Part of being a parent requires that the child is wearing clothing and appears to be well taken care of. Then, there is feeding them and making sure they eat every meal, everyday. And those two alone takes just about all of the expense in the household. But of course children love to go and do activities that they probably only get to do once a year because the level of responsibility will not allow it. Being a parent also lowers the opportunity rate. Say for instead, I am a full-time student, a full-time employee, and I have two kids. I have to give up on one of those opportunities, because there just is not enough me to go around. So, life with kids gives me more responsibility which allows me to contrast me opportunity of life without kids.
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Life without kids offers less responsibility and more opportunity than life with kids. I will be able to get the proper amount of education and down the line be offered great beneficial careers. There is an opportunity to make a believer out of myself by showing my mom and my peers how high my goals in life were really set. Without kids I would not have to worry about buying things I do not find necessary to live; such as theme park tickets and video games. I would not be responsible for a child missing a meal because my income is too low. And I would not have to buy clothing that my child would have grown out of a week after it is bought. Without kids of my own I would be able to reach out and help other people’s children; like mentoring them. So I would still have the whole idea of wanting to be a hero role going on.
In either of the lifestyles of being a parent or not being a parent I could still be someone’s hero. That would be the comparing part of the two roles. Because either way I would have someone watching and someone wanting be just like me. Just knowing that I had the opportunity to make a child smile would be a great pleasure to me. So in conclusion, I make this statement to say that the only compare and contrast of life with kids and life without kids is life knowing you helped a kid.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
2nd Essay Reflection
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
My Family’s Distinctive Lifestyle
Hard work is often displayed when my father awakes every morning to prepare for work. Work is a very important issue in a family. People need work in order to pay bills that will avoid late fees and/or disconnection. Work not only applies to bills, but it offers benefits such as healthcare and vacations. Hard work is a value that should not be taken lightly. I have learned from observing my father’s hard work that even the hardest tasks in life can be completed.
Honesty plays another important role in our family. For as long as I can remember my mom has been the most honest and loyal person I have ever met. She’s honest to herself, her community, and her religion. My mom would never cheat anyone out of anything; many say it is her religion that makes her so loyal. She gives good opinions, but I feel more comfortable talking to my cousins. Due to us being in the same age range I believe they better understand my situations. My cousins tell me the truth even if it requires hurting my feelings and/or leading to an argument that want last long. I can depend on them, they are my back bone.
As we all many know, honesty comes with respect. No matter what people should respect themselves as well as others. Respect is a word used often but shown little. In my family, the word respect is constantly stretched to show us as youth that respect for elders will get us very far in life. By my family trying their best to be perfect role models they do not use profanity around youth. I believe my family will succeed in their tasks to show us what life is all about.
A common belief is that the unity of a family is what holds us all together. I enjoy every moment I spend around my family. I believe I will be successful in all I do by remembering what they have taught me. These sources are examples I will carry throughout life.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
My reaction
Greatest Challenge
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Getting Lost
I remember waking up in the middle of the night, unable to sleep because of the scent of another woman's perfume. My spouse is a Co-Executive at Liberty Inc., promoted to persuade any young woman he is the idea of "Mr. Perfect". So, there I was pasting in the middle of the night wondering will this ever come to an end. Now I am asking myself questions like, would I ever be able to get into my bed and be held by this guy I love more than anything in the world? Those nights drove me delusional and I often had flashes, like visions, of what would happen if I walked out and left my two kids and their father alone. But I knew all of this was besides the point it was my wedding day and it was not the time to get lost on the past, because there has got to be something that led to this magnificent point.
I do remember the times when he would call home to see what the kids and I was doing and to make sure we were safe. And he would always make me feel comfortable to express how I felt no matter what the situation was. When I was finally fed up with the late nights of perfume and visions of him and someone else, I actually confronted him and he was able to sit down and let me express exactly how I felt and ever since that night he has been "Mr.Perfect" to me. There has not been any other scent in my bed, besides Dulce and Gabana, which I could not go a day without wearing.
And reality I come to relax that everything will not always be perfect. I have to learned to accept the past and move forward with what the future holds.